“I’m Too Busy”

Me: “Hey how are you doing today?” Other person:“Busy.  Very busy.” That’s the standard response most of us give and get, isn’t it?  After all, you wouldn’t tell your boss that you have nothing going on now, would you?  “Busy” is a comfortable, one-size-fits-all...

How to Handle Conflict Like The Boss

There are a lot of definitions on what conflict is, but the one I like best is one I heard on a recent podcast with Dr. Nate Regier.  He says that conflict is the disconnect between what I want and what I’m actually experiencing. That’s different than some of the...

How About a Little Respect…

In the Spring of 1997, I was serving on active duty in the Navy, at the rank of Petty Officer First Class. As an enlisted guy, I didn’t fit the profile of most enlisted people.  I had a Master of Arts degree in organizational leadership.  Most enlisted people don’t. ...

Self-Discipline vs. Self-Control

As The Boss, you’ve probably discovered that the job isn’t easy.  There is pressure to please your direct reports, your peers, your customers, and of course your boss as well.  When you get stressed, you’ve probably told yourself you need to be more disciplined and...